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Wednesday, September 22, 2010
Diamonds are a girls BFF
Saturday, September 18, 2010
Mental Illness and our Families
Any posts or new breakthrough research in mental health always grabs my attention because I have a brother and mother who suffer from schizophrenia. It has completely altered the way I have grown up and experienced life, and having the one caregiver in my life disabled has made it difficult. My brother understands his diagnosis but my mother refuses to believe anything is wrong and continues to delve deeper into her world which is far from reality and has a lot to do with spirits, Satanic influences, Jesus, and religion. Her hatred and paranoia towards me for being a homosexual has aggravated her schizophrenia even further and she only views me as a threat, even though all I want is for her to receive help and diagnosis from professionals who can help her be the lovable, laughing woman she used to be. The disease is so crippling she has lost her job, disappears into silent seclusion and has very distorted thoughts and speech. Her life is far from normal and it is quite alarming to witness, although I feel helpless to do anything. All attempts to get her to see she is mentally sick and needs help is met with deranged laughter.
I know that I am not the only one who is suffering with a mentally sick family member. The black community has many cases of Depression and schizophrenia, diseases that affect the entire family. It is hard to ignore--it is the invisible elephant in the room. It is crucial for family members to read material on these subjects and to stay caught up on any medical breakthroughs because we need to heal our families and get them through this. There is medicine and professional help that can rehabilitate them and assist them so they can function normally in today's society. Diseases like this keep people from succeeding, and they are often unreported because people assume Black people are just "lazy" although the truth is there is something very wrong that needs attention. It is painful and I think it needs more attention than it is receiving. Right now, Alzheimer's Disease is receiving a lot of attention in Canada but I hope schizophrenia is on the agenda.
The best we can do is to be as supportive of our sick family members or close friends, let them know we are there for them and not to express anger and frustration. It is not their fault they are suffering. I will be posting more information on Schizophrenia and how it affects the Black community. Feel free to post your stories because there is many cases out there and even if it doesn't affect you directly, wiping away disease is one of the greatest achievements of humankind.
I know that I am not the only one who is suffering with a mentally sick family member. The black community has many cases of Depression and schizophrenia, diseases that affect the entire family. It is hard to ignore--it is the invisible elephant in the room. It is crucial for family members to read material on these subjects and to stay caught up on any medical breakthroughs because we need to heal our families and get them through this. There is medicine and professional help that can rehabilitate them and assist them so they can function normally in today's society. Diseases like this keep people from succeeding, and they are often unreported because people assume Black people are just "lazy" although the truth is there is something very wrong that needs attention. It is painful and I think it needs more attention than it is receiving. Right now, Alzheimer's Disease is receiving a lot of attention in Canada but I hope schizophrenia is on the agenda.
The best we can do is to be as supportive of our sick family members or close friends, let them know we are there for them and not to express anger and frustration. It is not their fault they are suffering. I will be posting more information on Schizophrenia and how it affects the Black community. Feel free to post your stories because there is many cases out there and even if it doesn't affect you directly, wiping away disease is one of the greatest achievements of humankind.
Is Schizophrenia Really a Black Disease?
Who decides what "insane" means? This was the major question of Ken Kesey's countercultural classic "One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest," which illustrated how mental illness could be deployed by the establishment to crush the individual. But a recent book by University of Michigan psychiatry professor Jonathan Metzl suggests that Kesey's novel might not have been far from non-fiction. In "The Protest Psychosis: How Schizophrenia Became a Black Disease," Metzl documents the shifting interpretations of schizophrenia through the 20th century, tracing its evolution from a "white middle-class woman's disease" to an "African-American man's disease." Specifically, with the political upheaval of the civil rights movement, popular culture began to associate angry black men with schizophrenia, which in turn influenced the way doctors interpreted and diagnosed the illness.
Metzl is not the first to investigate the intersection between politics and illness. In 1978, cultural critic Susan Sontag published "Illness as Metaphor," a book which explored how our cultural biases affect the way diseases like cancer are interpreted (Sontag herself was battling breast cancer at the time). Ten years later, she expanded her purview with the follow-up work "AIDS and Its Metaphors," which analyzed societal perceptions of the AIDS epidemic—which were influenced heavily by metaphors of invasion, militarism, pollution, and pestilence. Her basic argument in both works is that there is a human tendency to interpret illness by comparing it to other things, often relying on metaphoric language and images.
The same is true, if not more so, for mental illnesses, whose effects are not inscribed physically on the body. And schizophrenia is one of the most misunderstood and misinterpreted mental illnesses. Despite the etymology of its name (from the Greek roots for "to split" and "mind"), schizophrenia does not, as is popularly believed, refer to the splitting of the mind into multiple personalities—that's dissociative identity disorder. Instead schizophrenia is characterized by an inability or difficulty to distinguish between real and unreal experiences. According to the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM-IV) symptoms of schizophrenia include delusions, hallucinations, disorganized speech, and grossly disorganized or catatonic behavior. But Metzl tells Big Think that the definition has "changed in relation to changing popular perceptions about how people with schizophrenia act."
"In particularly the early 1920s, 1930s, 1940s when the idea of schizophrenia itself was first coming to the United States from Europe there was a general assumption that persons who suffered from schizophrenia were either shy or calm or they were geniuses," Metzl says. "It was often represented as an illness that afflicted white novelists or poets and as I say, these were very often in popular and psychiatric representation assumed to be white people." But during the massive societal upheavals in the middle of century, ideas of sanity and insanity took on new meaning. "All of a sudden in the 1960s, American culture, newspapers, magazines, movies start to represent angry African-American men as in part being inflicted with a new form of this particular illness," and this change in popular perception of the disease directly influenced the clinical definition of it, Metzl argues. "All of a sudden in 1968, the second version of the Diagnostic Manual comes out and there is new language that says 'aggression, hostility, projection.'" The image of a schizophrenic person was all of a sudden more violent and unstable than the schizophrenic of 20 years before.
The practical consequences of this popular-cum-clinical shift in perception was that in the 1960s far more African-American men were institutionalized in psychiatric wards with schizophrenia. "Some had committed crimes, some had participated in civil rights protests, some had been participants in urban riots at the time. They all passed through various forms of the penal system and ended up diagnosed with schizophrenia and locked in the psychiatric wards," says Metzl. But were these men really schizophrenic? Or were they victims of shifting clinical definitions of disease, one that was prone to metaphoric interpretation?
Illnesses of the mind, unlike cancer and AIDS, can not be diagnosed biologically through laboratory tests. This has always been the major challenge of psychiatry. Psychiatrists must rely on patients' reported and observed behavior, interpreting the constellation of symptoms and matching that to a diagnosis using the DSM-IV. And since these definitions of mental illness aren't biologically determined, they are more likely to reflect cultural norms and perceptions. But Metzl does believe there is some biological basis for mental illness: "I feel like there is a false divide, almost like you have to vote: is an illness biological or is it social or socially constructed? And I don't like that divide very much because I think that all definitions of illness and particularly all definitions of psychiatric illness are always both." Psychiatrists must be fluent in both the cultural and the biological dimensions of illness, he says.
Brain imaging has revealed some slight changes in schizophrenic brains—the ventricular system is larger, the amygdala is hyperactive, and the frontal lobe is hypoactive during hallucinations. But imaging has not, as many in previous decades hoped, allowed psychiatrists to diagnose schizophrenia with the same biological certainty as bodily diseases. "The 1990s were often called the decade of the brain in psychiatry where we didn’t need to worry about Freud or about gender, psychoanalysis, or context," says Metzl. "All these things were in certain ways kind of pitched out the window because we were going to get the answer to everything from brain scans." But brain scans, though revolutionary, have failed thus far to unlock the secrets of the brain, and psychiatry has come to "a more moderated understanding of the brain."
SOURCE: http://bigthink.com/ideas/23922
Metzl is not the first to investigate the intersection between politics and illness. In 1978, cultural critic Susan Sontag published "Illness as Metaphor," a book which explored how our cultural biases affect the way diseases like cancer are interpreted (Sontag herself was battling breast cancer at the time). Ten years later, she expanded her purview with the follow-up work "AIDS and Its Metaphors," which analyzed societal perceptions of the AIDS epidemic—which were influenced heavily by metaphors of invasion, militarism, pollution, and pestilence. Her basic argument in both works is that there is a human tendency to interpret illness by comparing it to other things, often relying on metaphoric language and images.
The same is true, if not more so, for mental illnesses, whose effects are not inscribed physically on the body. And schizophrenia is one of the most misunderstood and misinterpreted mental illnesses. Despite the etymology of its name (from the Greek roots for "to split" and "mind"), schizophrenia does not, as is popularly believed, refer to the splitting of the mind into multiple personalities—that's dissociative identity disorder. Instead schizophrenia is characterized by an inability or difficulty to distinguish between real and unreal experiences. According to the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM-IV) symptoms of schizophrenia include delusions, hallucinations, disorganized speech, and grossly disorganized or catatonic behavior. But Metzl tells Big Think that the definition has "changed in relation to changing popular perceptions about how people with schizophrenia act."
"In particularly the early 1920s, 1930s, 1940s when the idea of schizophrenia itself was first coming to the United States from Europe there was a general assumption that persons who suffered from schizophrenia were either shy or calm or they were geniuses," Metzl says. "It was often represented as an illness that afflicted white novelists or poets and as I say, these were very often in popular and psychiatric representation assumed to be white people." But during the massive societal upheavals in the middle of century, ideas of sanity and insanity took on new meaning. "All of a sudden in the 1960s, American culture, newspapers, magazines, movies start to represent angry African-American men as in part being inflicted with a new form of this particular illness," and this change in popular perception of the disease directly influenced the clinical definition of it, Metzl argues. "All of a sudden in 1968, the second version of the Diagnostic Manual comes out and there is new language that says 'aggression, hostility, projection.'" The image of a schizophrenic person was all of a sudden more violent and unstable than the schizophrenic of 20 years before.
The practical consequences of this popular-cum-clinical shift in perception was that in the 1960s far more African-American men were institutionalized in psychiatric wards with schizophrenia. "Some had committed crimes, some had participated in civil rights protests, some had been participants in urban riots at the time. They all passed through various forms of the penal system and ended up diagnosed with schizophrenia and locked in the psychiatric wards," says Metzl. But were these men really schizophrenic? Or were they victims of shifting clinical definitions of disease, one that was prone to metaphoric interpretation?
Illnesses of the mind, unlike cancer and AIDS, can not be diagnosed biologically through laboratory tests. This has always been the major challenge of psychiatry. Psychiatrists must rely on patients' reported and observed behavior, interpreting the constellation of symptoms and matching that to a diagnosis using the DSM-IV. And since these definitions of mental illness aren't biologically determined, they are more likely to reflect cultural norms and perceptions. But Metzl does believe there is some biological basis for mental illness: "I feel like there is a false divide, almost like you have to vote: is an illness biological or is it social or socially constructed? And I don't like that divide very much because I think that all definitions of illness and particularly all definitions of psychiatric illness are always both." Psychiatrists must be fluent in both the cultural and the biological dimensions of illness, he says.
Brain imaging has revealed some slight changes in schizophrenic brains—the ventricular system is larger, the amygdala is hyperactive, and the frontal lobe is hypoactive during hallucinations. But imaging has not, as many in previous decades hoped, allowed psychiatrists to diagnose schizophrenia with the same biological certainty as bodily diseases. "The 1990s were often called the decade of the brain in psychiatry where we didn’t need to worry about Freud or about gender, psychoanalysis, or context," says Metzl. "All these things were in certain ways kind of pitched out the window because we were going to get the answer to everything from brain scans." But brain scans, though revolutionary, have failed thus far to unlock the secrets of the brain, and psychiatry has come to "a more moderated understanding of the brain."
| Takeaway Schizophrenia affects over 2 million people in the U.S., but the illness disproportionately targets African-Americans. Research suggests that blacks are diagnosed with schizophrenia five times more frequently than any other group. Is this truly a case of genetic difference? Or are doctors over-diagnosing blacks with schizophrenia because of a cultural bias to perceive it as a "black disease"? |
SOURCE: http://bigthink.com/ideas/23922
Covet This!
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| Gucci shades I covet |
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| Chanel de Bleu eau de toilette |
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| Toyota Prius hybrid car |
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| 2010 Burberry trenchcoat $1100, Holt Renfrew's |
Star Tracks from Essence
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| Taraji. P. Henson regal in pearls and gray gown. |
Leading Girls
It is obvious that Zahara is growing into a little angel, and of course Shiloh is just a little golden haired beauty. Angelina looks stunning with her little jet-setters. Zahara is the little feminine fashionista while Shiloh is a hip tomboy. I think it's admirable and progressive how Angie lets her girls embrace their own identities and doesn't conform to the bubble-gum pink Princess themed childhoods that girls are "supposed" to have. It is better for young women of today, whatever their race, to be independent and strong and know that they can think for themselves and do not NEED men. Go Angie, Shiloh and Zahara!
Wednesday, September 15, 2010
Quality of Life
I just want to send a quick post from my Blackberry to remind my readers (if there is any) the important
Things in life. It's not about how much money you make or HDTVs or $100 meals at fancy restaurants but it's about how happy you are. Piling up credit and spending hundreds
On brand names doesn't equate happiness. Don't listen to the media--all of it is created to make you spend.
What's important is your true friends, your family and your health. There is a beautiful world out there
And it's enjoyable whether you drive a Benz or a 1991 Chevrolet. Life isn't about what people
Think of you. I just hope you all can see pass the facade of these marketing and media bullies pouring out useless ads,
Stupid tv shows and products for your money. Live a little. Good conversation, love and laughs are
Still free!
Things in life. It's not about how much money you make or HDTVs or $100 meals at fancy restaurants but it's about how happy you are. Piling up credit and spending hundreds
On brand names doesn't equate happiness. Don't listen to the media--all of it is created to make you spend.
What's important is your true friends, your family and your health. There is a beautiful world out there
And it's enjoyable whether you drive a Benz or a 1991 Chevrolet. Life isn't about what people
Think of you. I just hope you all can see pass the facade of these marketing and media bullies pouring out useless ads,
Stupid tv shows and products for your money. Live a little. Good conversation, love and laughs are
Still free!
Sunday, September 12, 2010
Melanie B and adorable tyke Angel Iris Murphy-Brown
Beyonce + Eva
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| Beyonce and Jay-Z heading to their car after lunching in NYC |
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| Eva Mendes and hunky co-star Mark Walhberg |
Source: People.com
Saturday, September 11, 2010
Jacob Lawrence (Artist)
Is it All Right in the All White?
I went to a 100% white town up in Northern Ontario called B---- and I felt as if someone was going to get out of their pickup truck and shoot me with their shotgun. I elicited trucks to stop and people to snap their necks staring as I ambled down the main town road while perusing a farmer's market. The cheese was delicious, by the way. I wasn't uncomfortable because I had spent many years living in a 99% white suburb and going to a school where I am 1 out of 2 black persons. But coming from the city it is a huge culture shock to see every Tim Horton's cashier White as a lily instead of a recently landed immigrant or pimple-faced teen.
I want to know if people of minority races and biracial people feel comfortable in lily-white communities and town? How about in Sedalia, MO? Is there any Black people there and how do you guys feel? Well, I mean, there is 4.95% of a Black population there and an 88% White population there so I guess there are some people. Is there any city more lily-white than Sedalia? What about in Florida?
Spencer, Tennessee is 99.02% White and 0.13%. Yes, they beat out Sedalia. I'm not saying these counties or towns SHOULDN'T be white-dominant. Why not? I just wonder how other races feel stepping into these towns like West Pittston, Pennsylvania which is 99.2% white. I am not jealous the towns are predominantly white. I don't think these are cultural hubs full of anything interesting, but if these people are interested in living amongst their own because of fear of other nationalities and races, let them live out their days in reclusion.
For me, to have to spend a month in 99.3% white Cameron Park, Texas would scare the living shit out of me. I would constantly feel fear for my life. I guess it's different here in Canada. People might stare but nobody wishes you harm. In the South however, in all-white counties, who knows? I wonder the mind frame and views of the residents. How do they feel about Black people? Would they like them for a neighbour? How about Latinos? Chinese? Pakistani? Portuguese? Maybe the question is, who really wants to find out?
I want to know if people of minority races and biracial people feel comfortable in lily-white communities and town? How about in Sedalia, MO? Is there any Black people there and how do you guys feel? Well, I mean, there is 4.95% of a Black population there and an 88% White population there so I guess there are some people. Is there any city more lily-white than Sedalia? What about in Florida?
Spencer, Tennessee is 99.02% White and 0.13%. Yes, they beat out Sedalia. I'm not saying these counties or towns SHOULDN'T be white-dominant. Why not? I just wonder how other races feel stepping into these towns like West Pittston, Pennsylvania which is 99.2% white. I am not jealous the towns are predominantly white. I don't think these are cultural hubs full of anything interesting, but if these people are interested in living amongst their own because of fear of other nationalities and races, let them live out their days in reclusion.
Robert De Niro Shines
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| Robert De Niro and wife Grace Tower |
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| Beautiful Grace Hightower, wife of Roberto De Niro (actor) |
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| Robert De Niro and youngest sons (twins) |
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| Grace Hightower, former flight attendant |
Highest Paid Black Actress in France
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| Aissa Maiga with a fellow actress |
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| Aissa Maiga |
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| Aissa Maiga sporting beautiful natural hair and a gorgeous smile |
Aissa Maiga, age 35, is a Senegal-born French actress and the highest paid black actress in France. Her latest films include L'avocat and L'aide au retour.
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| Aissa Maigam French actress |
Zahara Jolie Pitt--the Princess
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| Zahara sucking her thumb. Nice hat! |
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| Source: Zimbio.com |
Alicia Keys Bares Her Bump
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| Pregnant Alicia Keys on July 24th |
Friday, September 10, 2010
Hair Care - Moisturizers
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| Natural locks are the most beautiful thing ever! |
You can peruse your nearest hair salons or Shoppers Drug Mart but you'll be hard-pressed to find a product for your coarse, kinky hair. The products created for your hair type and marketed in these stores do not contain anything that is actually good for your hair. These products are actually very damaging because they contain products like mineral oil and petroleum that prohibit healthy hair and hair growth in the longterm. "Hair grease" and these lotions that the Black community have long relied on do not help our hair. Maybe it was created to further destroy our tresses, who knows? The regular hair section has products for thin, curly or colour-treated hair and these brands contain way too many chemicals for our sensitive hair. You cannot use these regular hair products or these pharmacy store products for your hair if you want healthy, long tresses.
I personally use Ojon shampoo and conditioner which I purchased at Sephora for $60 for both and other brands that are good for your hair is Beauty 4 Ashes and Carol's Daughter although these are not available in Canada yet (you will find them in the U.S). Some Black women swear by Jane Carter Solutions and Drops of Nature. It also helps to use a silk pillowcase because cotton will dry your hair out quickly. If you do not have a silk pillowcase, purchase one and also consider a silk hair scarf instead of a bandana. Your hair will thank you!
African-American hair has a tendency to be dry, which is exacerbated by a structure that can make it difficult for oil to properly penetrate both the scalp and the ends of the hair. Thus, you should adopt a daily, weekly, and semi-regular treatment method for your hair to keep it looking its best.
What's Wrong with Petroleum-Based Products
Your grandmother may have used plain old petroleum jelly on her hair and still swears by it. This can be great for really rough patches on elbows and knees, but when you use too much mineral oil or petroleum, your pores will get clogged. What causes acne on your face will create more dryness on your scalp, because as you continue to apply it to clogged pores, they will not absorb the moisture and your hair will be prone to more damage.
Shea Butter and Other Natural Moisturizers
Instead, opt for something like organic shea butter. Full of healing properties, shea butter is one of the healthiest moisturizers for hair and skin alike. Jojoba or papaya oils are also very healthy and popular. You can also try ayurvedic oils found in health food shops and Indian beauty supply stores. Obviously, the texture of the hair is very different, but an ayurvedic-based hair oil will be natural and gentle enough for daily use and will promote softness and resiliency.
You can also moisturize straight from the kitchen cupboard. Coconut, olive, and safflower oils are excellent for the hair and skin. If you need to do a hot oil treatment once a week, try using one of these oils, gently heated in the microwave. Apply carefully from scalp to ends, wrap a towel around your head for about twenty minutes, and then rinse out using lukewarm water.
Source:http\www. hair.lovetoknow.com
Cute Kids
The former post was Alicia Keys looking absolutely radiant in a canary yellow tunic and some awesome shades. Mom Mel B and daughter Phoenix touched down at Heathrow Airport in April 2010, while the adorable son Knight (parents are Kelis and Nas) is one cute product!
Baby Kenzo Lee Simmons
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Kenzo being toted by mama Kimora Lee. Kimora is sporting a Birkin bag. |
The adorable son of Kimora Lee and Djimon Hounsou was born May 30th and is one cute little prince!
Fall Fashion! - Classic with an Edge
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| Must have item? Burberry zip poncho. Ponchos are making a comeback this year! |
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| Zoe Saldana in one trendy ensemble. |
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| A classy touch for jeans. |
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| Zoe Saldana dazzles in this blazer and skinny jeans. |
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| This outfit is perfect for the office! Just remember to use necklaces to cover up ample cleavage! |
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| Fur for the divas! |
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| You can't go wrong with a classic coat and a colorful scarf! |
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| Update the forever fashionable leggings with royal blue flat boots and a gray cardy. |
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| Scarf it up. Oversized scarves are tres chic. |
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| Boost a casual outfit with edgy wedges |
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| This ensemble is glam with a neutral toned oversized handbag and knee high boots! |
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| Dove gray never looked so good on Chanel Iman |
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| Beyonce in stunning maroon jacket |
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