Wednesday, September 22, 2010

Diamonds are a girls BFF

Halle Berry
I have an engagement ring and I have noticed other women's sparklers lately. I wanted to upgrade the diamond on mine to something shinier and better. Of course, the ladies above look amazing and it's nice to see them dressed up on Essence.com. I have always loved Halle Berry. She's drama free and down-to-earth. I haven't really been a huge fan of jewellery but I love my engagement ring and am looking forward to my wedding band which I want to be full of diamonds. I keep asking for a new multi-stone diamond ring with a princess cut solitaire in the middle but with the new car we just bought and tuition fees, I think I'll have to hold off for a bit. There is something that just feels so good about wearing diamonds on your hand every day and displayign it for the world to see---not only do they know you are taken, but they know whoever you are married/marrying knows how to take care of you and that you deserve the very best. I see some serious sparkle and I wonder how much everyone's rings cost and where they got them. Is it vain to want a bigger, better engagement ring?

emEssence/em Magazine's New Fashion Director Sparks Controversy

emEssence/em Magazine's New Fashion Director Sparks Controversy

Saturday, September 18, 2010

Mental Illness and our Families

   Any posts or new breakthrough research in mental health always grabs my attention because I have a brother and mother who suffer from schizophrenia. It has completely altered the way I have grown up and experienced life, and having the one caregiver in my life disabled has made it difficult. My brother understands his diagnosis but my mother refuses to believe anything is wrong and continues to delve deeper into her world which is far from reality and has a lot to do with spirits, Satanic influences, Jesus, and religion. Her hatred and paranoia towards me for being a homosexual has aggravated her schizophrenia even further and she only views me as a threat, even though all I want is for her to receive help and diagnosis from professionals who can help her be the lovable, laughing woman she used to be. The disease is so crippling she has lost her job, disappears into silent seclusion and has very distorted thoughts and speech. Her life is far from normal and it is quite alarming to witness, although I feel helpless to do anything. All attempts to get her to see she is mentally sick and needs help is met with deranged laughter.

I know that I am not the only one who is suffering with a mentally sick family member. The black community has many cases of Depression and schizophrenia, diseases that affect the entire family. It is hard to ignore--it is the invisible elephant in the room. It is crucial for family members to read material on these subjects and to stay caught up on any medical breakthroughs because we need to heal our families and get them through this. There is medicine and professional help that can rehabilitate them and assist them so they can function normally in today's society. Diseases like this keep people from succeeding, and they are often unreported because people assume Black people are just "lazy" although the truth is there is something very wrong that needs attention. It is painful and I think it needs more attention than it is receiving. Right now, Alzheimer's Disease is receiving a lot of attention in Canada but I hope schizophrenia is on the agenda.

The best we can do is to be as supportive of our sick family members or close friends, let them know we are there for them and not to express anger and frustration. It is not their fault they are suffering. I will be posting more information on Schizophrenia and how it affects the Black community. Feel free to post your stories because there is many cases out there and even if it doesn't affect you directly, wiping away disease is one of the greatest achievements of humankind.

Is Schizophrenia Really a Black Disease?

Who decides what "insane" means? This was the major question of Ken Kesey's countercultural classic "One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest," which illustrated how mental illness could be deployed by the establishment to crush the individual. But a recent book by University of Michigan psychiatry professor Jonathan Metzl suggests that Kesey's novel might not have been far from non-fiction. In "The Protest Psychosis: How Schizophrenia Became a Black Disease," Metzl documents the shifting interpretations of schizophrenia through the 20th century, tracing its evolution from a "white middle-class woman's disease" to an "African-American man's disease." Specifically, with the political upheaval of the civil rights movement, popular culture began to associate angry black men with schizophrenia, which in turn influenced the way doctors interpreted and diagnosed the illness.
Metzl is not the first to investigate the intersection between politics and illness. In 1978, cultural critic Susan Sontag published "Illness as Metaphor," a book which explored how our cultural biases affect the way diseases like cancer are interpreted (Sontag herself was battling breast cancer at the time). Ten years later, she expanded her purview with the follow-up work "AIDS and Its Metaphors," which analyzed societal perceptions of the AIDS epidemic—which were influenced heavily by metaphors of invasion, militarism, pollution, and pestilence. Her basic argument in both works is that there is a human tendency to interpret illness by comparing it to other things, often relying on metaphoric language and images.
The same is true, if not more so, for mental illnesses, whose effects are not inscribed physically on the body. And schizophrenia is one of the most misunderstood and misinterpreted mental illnesses. Despite the etymology of its name (from the Greek roots for "to split" and "mind"), schizophrenia does not, as is popularly believed, refer to the splitting of the mind into multiple personalities—that's dissociative identity disorder. Instead schizophrenia is characterized by an inability or difficulty to distinguish between real and unreal experiences. According to the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM-IV) symptoms of schizophrenia include delusions, hallucinations, disorganized speech, and grossly disorganized or catatonic behavior. But Metzl tells Big Think that the definition has "changed in relation to changing popular perceptions about how people with schizophrenia act."

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"In particularly the early 1920s, 1930s, 1940s when the idea of schizophrenia itself was first coming to the United States from Europe there was a general assumption that persons who suffered from schizophrenia were either shy or calm or they were geniuses," Metzl says. "It was often represented as an illness that afflicted white novelists or poets and as I say, these were very often in popular and psychiatric representation assumed to be white people." But during the massive societal upheavals in the middle of century, ideas of sanity and insanity took on new meaning. "All of a sudden in the 1960s, American culture, newspapers, magazines, movies start to represent angry African-American men as in part being inflicted with a new form of this particular illness," and this change in popular perception of the disease directly influenced the clinical definition of it, Metzl argues. "All of a sudden in 1968, the second version of the Diagnostic Manual comes out and there is new language that says 'aggression, hostility, projection.'" The image of a schizophrenic person was all of a sudden more violent and unstable than the schizophrenic of 20 years before.
The practical consequences of this popular-cum-clinical shift in perception was that in the 1960s far more African-American men were institutionalized in psychiatric wards with schizophrenia. "Some had committed crimes, some had participated in civil rights protests, some had been participants in urban riots at the time. They all passed through various forms of the penal system and ended up diagnosed with schizophrenia and locked in the psychiatric wards," says Metzl. But were these men really schizophrenic? Or were they victims of shifting clinical definitions of disease, one that was prone to metaphoric interpretation?
Illnesses of the mind, unlike cancer and AIDS, can not be diagnosed biologically through laboratory tests. This has always been the major challenge of psychiatry. Psychiatrists must rely on patients' reported and observed behavior, interpreting the constellation of symptoms and matching that to a diagnosis using the DSM-IV. And since these definitions of mental illness aren't biologically determined, they are more likely to reflect cultural norms and perceptions. But Metzl does believe there is some biological basis for mental illness: "I feel like there is a false divide, almost like you have to vote: is an illness biological or is it social or socially constructed? And I don't like that divide very much because I think that all definitions of illness and particularly all definitions of psychiatric illness are always both." Psychiatrists must be fluent in both the cultural and the biological dimensions of illness, he says.

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Brain imaging has revealed some slight changes in schizophrenic brains—the ventricular system is larger, the amygdala is hyperactive, and the frontal lobe is hypoactive during hallucinations. But imaging has not, as many in previous decades hoped, allowed psychiatrists to diagnose schizophrenia with the same biological certainty as bodily diseases. "The 1990s were often called the decade of the brain in psychiatry where we didn’t need to worry about Freud or about gender, psychoanalysis, or context," says Metzl. "All these things were in certain ways kind of pitched out the window because we were going to get the answer to everything from brain scans." But brain scans, though revolutionary, have failed thus far to unlock the secrets of the brain, and psychiatry has come to "a more moderated understanding of the brain."

Takeaway
Schizophrenia affects over 2 million people in the U.S., but the illness disproportionately targets African-Americans. Research suggests that blacks are diagnosed with schizophrenia five times more frequently than any other group. Is this truly a case of genetic difference? Or are doctors over-diagnosing blacks with schizophrenia because of a cultural bias to perceive it as a "black disease"?

SOURCE: http://bigthink.com/ideas/23922

Covet This!

Gucci shades I covet
I have an accentric taste in fashion and accessories and right now I'm drooling over the Chloe Myrte sunglasses which are retailing for a cool $300 here in Canada. I've seen them at Square One Shopping Mall in Mississauga, Ontario and I was ready to buy them half-price at $150 but opted for an XBOX 360 instead....which I'm still kicking myself for. If I can locate a pair again, I'll be sure to grab them because their vintage, round shape are refreshingly different than the regular oversized aviators or thick black plastic shades that Sunglass Hut and Holt Renfrew's has piles of. I had originally vied for these Lennon inspired Gucci shades but they're out of season and will not be making a return (how I mourned them) plus at $500 they were a bit out of my price range, although if I didn't have my fiancee I'd have bought them in an instant. I go goo-goo for a very awesome, one-of-a-kind pair of shades. It just adds more dimension to my identity. It adds mystery, allure and of course, individuality. The 'uglier' the shades to the average person, the more I dig 'em!

Chanel de Bleu eau de toilette
Also, I'm a huge perfume snob. I don't like women's scents though and prefer men's eau de toilettes or colognes. For the last year, my fiancee and I both decided we could die for Narciso Rodriguez's Men's cologne with a nice sandalwood, musky scent but I've opened up to YSL Le Nuit L'Homme and Chanel Le Bleu which blew my mind away the first day I spritzed it in my bedroom. YSL L'Homme is very popular and so is the new Chanel, and I do hate going with the crowd but what can you do? When something smells good, it smells good.

Toyota Prius hybrid car
My fiancee and I drive a 2000 Chrysler Neon in silver but I've had the pleasure of driving a brand-new Toyota Prius in red, and I was all for the hybrid eco-friendly car, it drove smoothly and felt amazing and for $26,000 it's affordable. People are all like Benzes and Rovers, but honestly if you get over the fact they are status symbols, you'll notice the great cars in their shadows. When we crashed our first car, a Plymouth, we had a Toyota Yaris for a while and I had gotten so accustomed to the car and enjoyed it so much that whenever I see one on the road I just smile. Right now I'm coveting the Prius, because when you're saving the environment....you can't go wrong!

2010 Burberry trenchcoat $1100, Holt Renfrew's
Okay, what else out there in this materialistic world do I HAVE to have? Is it a Tiffany's key necklace? Nope. Is it a Gucci totebag? Nope...but close. Is it Christian Louboutin boots? Nada. The number one thing on my Must-Have List is actually the Burberry trench coat. Any fashion blog you read will tell you double-breasted is in, and I've been a very loyal lover of Burberry because of their adorable children's collection and their cute diaper bag and baby bottles. I tried the coat on at Holt's and it TRANSFORMED me and left me breathless. I saw myself in a way I never saw myself before: successful, classy and regal. For a cool $1,100 before tax though this is a coat I will either have to hunt for on a bargain website or save up for a while because I wasn't fortunate enough to invent Facebook or win a lottery ticket. :) I have had this trenchcoat on my Blackberry screen background and on the laptop and I dream about walking my pug wearnig it on Bel Air Avenue in Yorkville or strolling to Starbucks. It is a coat that when you wear it, CANNOT make you ignored. So, now you know my must have list. I shall shoot you now.

Star Tracks from Essence

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Taraji. P. Henson regal in pearls and gray gown.
I copied these pictures from Essence Magazine's online website and I wish deeply that this magazine and People.com could somehow partner up or get their photographers to get pictures of BOTH Black and White celebrities and put them together on one website and one magazine. I think keeping them separate is only hurting the progress of our civilization. It is not a good idea to segregate the magazines based on race. Why can't People Magazine get their photographers to stalk Usher or Kerry Washington? And why doesn't Essence Magazine get Gwen Stefani (who collobarates with a lot of hip hop artists) or Tiger Woods? I think that if both races were shown in both influential magazines, then that is a very progressive start. C'mon, already!

Leading Girls

It is obvious that Zahara is growing into a little angel, and of course Shiloh is just a little golden haired beauty. Angelina looks stunning with her little jet-setters. Zahara is the little feminine fashionista while Shiloh is a hip tomboy. I think it's admirable and progressive how Angie lets her girls embrace their own identities and doesn't conform to the bubble-gum pink Princess themed childhoods that girls are "supposed" to have. It is better for young women of today, whatever their race, to be independent and strong and know that they can think for themselves and do not NEED men. Go Angie, Shiloh and Zahara!